PERSPECTIVES → INBOX Issue 1052 · March 5, 2025

Inbox: Issue 1052

“Shouldn’t we encourage readers to prioritize Eretz Yisrael rather than settle for yet another galus community?”

Inbox: Issue 1052
Warmth Isn’t Inclusion [Guestlines / Issue 1051]

Thank you for sharing Rabbi Aryeh Kerzner’s incredible article on parnassah. His words were both insightful and powerful, and I’d like to add my own perspective.

Two years ago, I moved to a well-known out-of-town community —heralded as an exceptionally warm and welcoming place. In some ways, that reputation is well-deserved. People greet each other with big smiles, a heartfelt “Good Shabbos,” and the community truly comes together for simchahs.

But beyond the surface, I’ve found that warmth doesn’t always translate into inclusion. In the time I’ve been here, I haven’t really been invited to Shabbos or Purim meals. I don’t feel fully at home in most of the shuls, because I’m not “part of the olam.” And most of all, when I reach out to people for business opportunities, for networking, for a way to make a parnassah — I am often met with silence. My emails go unanswered, my efforts to connect unacknowledged.

So, I turn to you — anyone in these communities who read Rabbi Kerzner’s article — please, take a moment and ask yourself: Is he talking to me? Can I do more to help others find their way in business? Is my warmth and friendliness truly inclusive? Do I extend it only to those in my circle, or also to those who are looking for a foothold, a chance, a way in?

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