LONG READS Issue 1073 · August 6, 2025

Support at the Abyss

Avi Tenenbaumis all about finding ways to show up for them, because he remembers what it was like to be there

Support at the Abyss
Photos: Elchanan Kotler, personal archives
While some professionals stick to one lane, Avi Tenenbaum — trauma and addiction expert, EMT, search-and-rescue commander, and crisis intervention trainer — has spent his life noticing the people no one else does. He’s all about finding ways to show up for them, because he remembers what it was like to be there, too

 

They were only meant to be handing out cookies

IT was the winter of 2023, not long after the war in Eretz Yisrael began, and Avi Tenenbaum, an American from Chicago now living in Jerusalem’s Ramot neighborhood, had taken his friend from Monsey to visit a yeshivah down south. As people from all over the world showered IDF soldiers with expressions of support, Avi wanted to give similar backing to yeshivah bochurim holding down the fort from the beis medrash.

As they were pulling away, Avi noticed a man waving from the edge of the sidewalk. Probably a hitchhiker, he figured, and continued on.

But the man didn’t give up. He gesticulated wildly — then broke into a run after the car. They reversed, and when Avi rolled open the window, the man ran over.

“You’re here for the CPR?” the man asked breathlessly.

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