LIFESTYLE Issue 1091 · December 17, 2025

Family Living: Bedtime Without a Battle  

Bedtime doesn’t start at bedtime. By the time you call your children to bed, the tone for bedtime has already been set

Family Living: Bedtime Without a Battle  

We’ve all been there — one child tugging on your leg, another whining for a drink, a third missing… something… and your newborn just wants to eat. But it’s six thirty, which means it’s time for the nightly showdown you call bedtime.

Bedtime doesn’t have to be a fight. With a few thoughtful systems and techniques, you can get your children to sleep with plenty of time to sit down with a quiet cup of coffee.

The Wind-Down

The truth is, bedtime doesn’t start at bedtime. By the time you call your children to bed, the tone for bedtime has already been set. First, you need a wind-down process to get them calm and ready to prepare for bed.

The key to a wind-down process is, well… winding down. If bedtime is 7:30, start the process at 6:45. Dim the lights, turn on some quiet music, and let your children pick a few quiet activities, like drawing or puzzles. Low-stimulation activities help their minds and bodies get ready for bed.

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