FLASHBACK → LIFETAKES Issue 846 · January 27, 2021

The Boomerang Tefillah Effect

The answer to my tefillos surprised even me

The Boomerang Tefillah Effect

I’d longed to go to Israel for years, but financial obligations precluded that. I was a widow helping to support a kollel couple, a daughter in a master’s program, and two teenage boys in yeshivah; a vacation to Israel was completely out of my budget. And now this all expenses-paid-for trip was being handed to me on a silver platter.

Wanting to show my hakaras hatov to Hashem for this amazing opportunity, I resolved to use my time in Israel to fervently daven for the singles in my hometown. Since I myself was in my late twenties when I got married, I had a special affinity for older singles. I never forgot what it felt like to attend a simchah alone or hope a Shabbos invitation would come earlier in the week rather than later.

I knew that there was a group of devoted mothers who met every week to say Tehilllim for their single daughters and also for other unmarried women in our community. I obtained a copy of their shidduch list. With my luggage, my round-trip-ticket, the shidduch list, and a heart full of gratitude to Hashem, I was off to Israel.

After a restful Shabbos with friends, I spent the following week zipping all over Jerusalem, speaking in seminaries morning, noon, and night, accompanied by one of our seminary’s most popular teachers, Mindi.

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