It’s the problem that everyone prays for: too many simchahs. Yet, having scores of simchahs, say the experts, brings with it its own complexities — to be navigated with wisdom. Family First spoke with some seasoned simchah-goers to glean advice and inspiration on how best to capitalize on this divine outpouring of joy.
Averaging two brissim and one wedding/engagement party per week plus plenty of pidyon habens and kiddushim sprinkled throughout great-great grandmother Mrs. Faige Tessler* of Bnei Brak is a full-time partygoer — and she’s forever grateful.
“Hashem has showered me with blessing” she declares.
And yet despite her deep feelings of gratitude this feisty octogenarian — along with many others — admits to the real challenges that accompany the nonstop bliss: conflicts competition time constraints and more.
Wanted: More Hours Each Day
For most veteran simchah-frequenters simply finding the time to attend every event is the hardest part. As the prevailing retirement age creeps steadily higher (thanks to a rough economic climate) many baby boomers find themselves holding down full-time jobs well into their 60s or 70s while juggling many responsibilities at home.
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