When dressing up is spiritual, not superficial
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preliminary glance at his and her sides of a couple’s clothing closet generally yields two truths:
Somehow, where other stereotypes fail, the one about females and apparel is spot on. We notice and appreciate color, cut, fabric, and details, and are willing to invest time and effort to get it just right. Which is why the concept of Shabbos clothing seems to be tailor made for us: Which woman would not rejoice at a divine mandate to procure an entirely new suit of clothing for once-a-week wear? Yet even the most fashion-conscious among us understand that bigdei Shabbos are not about our wardrobe preferences, but are part of the way we honor the holy day.
“In honor of Shabbos one should wear a clean garment. Clothing for every day should not be the same clothing as for Shabbos. And if one does not have a different garment to substitute, he may lengthen [allow to hang longer] his existing raiment, so that his Shabbos attire is distinguishable from his everyday clothing.” (Rambam, Hilchos Shabbos 30: 3)
One of the myriad ways we express kavod is through our dress. The worn skirt and stained top that are perfect for heavy housecleaning are unsuitable for a wedding. When I upgrade my attire for an event, I imply that the occasion is worthy. Shabbos, the most elevated day of the week, demands an extra dose of kavod, and changing to finer clothing confers this kavod.
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