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December 6, 2022 · 6 min read
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Issue 939
December 6, 2022 · 6 min read

I’ll Miss You More

Thank you, for both your honest feedback and your friendship-from-afar

#224
Issue 935
November 9, 2022 · 5 min read

Deflection Election

It's the day whenas a community, time and again we fail mightily in our designated role on this…

#223
Issue 934
November 1, 2022 · 7 min read

One More Round

Only a few short weeks ago I got a glimpse of the truly transformative power of the big…

#222
Issue 932
October 18, 2022 · 7 min read

Honor Roll

How can it be that an infinite G-d, Who has no needs, created this world just so that…

#221
Issue 931
October 6, 2022 · 6 min read

Home Is a Succah

To enter the succah is to take shelter under His wings from all the storms, literal and figurative

#220
Issue 930
September 28, 2022 · 6 min read

Street Smarts

Specific, Meaningful, Action-oriented, Realistic, and Time-bound

#219
Issue 929
September 20, 2022 · 8 min read

Live Like a Queen

Chazal teach that there are worthwhile spiritual insights to be gained from studying earthly kingship

#218
Issue 928
September 13, 2022 · 7 min read

By the Week

A wonderful program of Gemara study called Daf Hashovua

#217
Issue 927
September 6, 2022 · 8 min read

Losers Take All

A quintessentially Jewish idea— that it can be a high honor to be a loser

#216
Issue 926
August 30, 2022 · 6 min read

Jump the Line

How can we earn a spot toward the beginning of the line past the Kisei Rachamim on the…

#215
Issue 925
August 23, 2022 · 5 min read

Hold the Phone

Something as simple as the landline phone kept the members of a family connected to each other

#214
Issue 924
August 16, 2022 · 6 min read

Sweetness and Steel

The willingness to fearlessly take a stand in service of the truth

#213
Issue 923
August 9, 2022 · 6 min read

Close Encounters

Even the closest human relationship can’t approximate the cleaving of the soul to its Maker

#212
Issue 922
August 2, 2022 · 5 min read

The Same Old Things

How are we to know what are the things for which we need to repent and mend our…

#211
Issue 921
July 26, 2022 · 8 min read

A Bite of the Big Apple

The gift of a parnassah b’kavod to over 700 frum Jews in New York City

#210
Issue 920
July 19, 2022 · 6 min read

Carried to the Extreme

When Jews do things, for better or for worse, they do them in a big way

#209
Issue 919
July 12, 2022 · 5 min read

Book Marks

Not only was Rav Ruderman’s genius invested in the Avodas Levi, so was his mesirus nefesh

#208
Issue 918
July 5, 2022 · 7 min read

A Leg to Stand On

Some subtle difference between two words for falsity

#207
Issue 917
June 28, 2022 · 8 min read

Their Day in Court

Unanimity is achieved at the Supreme Court for really only two reasons

#206
Issue 916
June 21, 2022 · 7 min read

Nonhuman Condition

The “rights we confer on others,” including animals, do indeed “define who we are as a society”

#205
Issue 915
June 14, 2022 · 6 min read

Black on White

My overall attitude toward reader reaction is that, good or bad, it’s all good

#204
Issue 914
June 7, 2022 · 7 min read

It Sounds Counterintuitive

All media outlets are “mainstream” within the universe of their target audiences

#203
Issue 913
May 31, 2022 · 6 min read

Don’t Forget to Remember

For now, the memories are still fresh, but they will fade, as will the opportunity

#202
Issue 912
May 24, 2022 · 5 min read

Not by Bread Alone

Transforming the stubbornly material into the stuff of the spiritual

#201
Issue 911
May 17, 2022 · 6 min read

ONE OF US

Rabbi Wallerstein’s life story holds manifold lessons about what it means to truly care about other Jews

#200
Issue 910
May 10, 2022 · 5 min read

Poles Apart

The American constitution entitles even unsavory individuals to free speech

#199
Issue 909
May 3, 2022 · 7 min read

Ahead of the Game

It’s the very difficulties a ben Torah encounters that create the merits that will bring eventual success

#198
Issue 908
April 26, 2022 · 7 min read

Agree to Disagree

Surely our obligation of hishtadlus demands that we daven and work for a stable, peaceful, tolerant, functional America

#197
Issue 907
April 11, 2022 · 5 min read

A Vision of One

Each son must be viewed as his own entity, not compared with his brothers, or anyone else’s son…

#196
Issue 906
April 5, 2022 · 6 min read

Grab It While You Can

The will to change, to grow, must be verbalized

#195
Issue 905
March 29, 2022 · 8 min read

Tell It to the Judge

Today, every Supreme Court nomination immediately flares into a pitched partisan battle

#194
Issue 904
March 22, 2022 · 7 min read

Lost in the Crowd

An entire generation is being raised to not possess seichel and dei’ah

#193
Issue 903
March 15, 2022 · 7 min read

No Love Lost

Shlomo Hamelech speaks of an eis lisno— a time to hate, and we Jews are now in ours—…

#192
Issue 902
March 8, 2022 · 7 min read

Not Feeling Yourself?

"There’s a chasm even greater than the one between Heaven and earth— the distance between mind and heart"

#191
Issue 901
March 1, 2022 · 5 min read

In His Words

What are we now, with people like Reb Yeruchom no longer here to keep our generation anchored in…

#190
Issue 900
February 22, 2022 · 5 min read

Rise and Shine

What happens when, after much hard work and self-sacrifice, you have actually achieved your goals?

#189
Issue 899
February 15, 2022 · 7 min read

Keep It Fresh

I prefer the view that “like” is a verbal tic indicating hazy tentativeness

#188
Issue 898
February 8, 2022 · 8 min read

Easy Money

Most analysts of the phenomenon agree that the president has little to do with the country’s economic fortunes

#187
Issue 897
February 1, 2022 · 6 min read

Try Your Hand

There’s something moving about the mental image that a long-ago handwritten reply conjures up

#186
Issue 896
January 25, 2022 · 8 min read

Rife with Therapies

The dichotomy of establishment consensus versus skeptical minority opinion

#185
Issue 895
January 18, 2022 · 7 min read

Dead Serious

Thirty-three percent of Jews raised Orthodox do not continue to identify with Orthodoxy as adults

#184
Issue 894
January 11, 2022 · 8 min read

Agree to Disagree

Finding a way to talk to each other without animosity and actually listen to each other as well

#183
Issue 893
January 4, 2022 · 4 min read

Fit to Print

I’m not suggesting this story is the beginning and end of any discussion about frum journalism