“I had reasons and never intended to hurt you”
In honor of Rav Pam, whose 22nd yahrtzeit is 28 Av
It was over 40 years ago, yet I recall the incident as if it was yesterday.
I am sitting across from Rav Pam ztz”l, and I could not contain my feelings of hurt and resentment.
“But Rebbi, why didn’t he come to my chasunah?” I asked for the third time. Shloimke Furman*, who I considered a very close friend, was a no-show at my chasunah. When I asked why he wasn’t coming, he responded, “I’m sorry. I can’t make it. I have a conflict.”
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