From an early age, firstborns can take on adult traits because, being the oldest, their role models are usually grownups
If you’re a firstborn, are married to one, or gave birth to one, you may be familiar with the typical personality traits: strong-willed, confident, determined, driven, organized, reliable, and super responsible. Family First looks at why oldest children turn out that way, the benefits and pitfalls of being born first, plus how to best parent your bechor or bechorah
At the age of eight, firstborn Karen Stein*, was given instructions on how to do something by an adult in the family. “How can you tell me what to do? I’ve already raised four children!” replied Karen, now a grandmother living in Silver Spring, Maryland, referring to her younger siblings.
That strong-willed confidence is typical of oldest children, who are often leaders of the pack, second-in-command after mother and father, and role models for the children who follow.
Research indicates that firstborns can be determined, driven, hardworking, organized, scholarly, and super-conscientious. They’re known to have very strong personalities, making them suited for leadership roles. Studies have consistently revealed that oldest children tend to excel academically, and often pursue intellectual professions in the fields of science, medicine, or law.
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