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The Learning Curve

The Learning Curve is a podcast hosted by Rabbi Ari Schonfeld and Rabbi Yerachmiel Garfield tackling the important parenting issues facing frum families today.

Hosted by Rabbi Ari Schonfeld & Rabbi Yerachmiel Garfield Avg. 62m
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30 episodes

Let's Talk Live! (Feat. YOU!)

In our season three finale, Rabbi Schonfeld and Rabbi Garfield answer your parenting questions. Should you encourage your child to befriend a troubled kid? Why don't baatei medrashim hold boys…

May 28, 2026
1:02:37
Let's Talk Medicating Kids (Feat. Dr. Mayer Grunfeld)

In episode 14 of The Learning Curve, Rabbi Garfield and Rabbi Schonfeld talk 3-point celebrations and how to handle moving with school-aged children. And the big question with Dr. Mayer…

May 13, 2026
1:04:00
Let's Talk Middle School Middos (Feat. Rabbi Yaakov Schwartz and Rabbi Yaakov Feldman)

In episode 13 of The Learning Curve, Rabbi Schonfeld and Rabbi Garfield discuss if you should allow your daughter to attend a friend's bas mitzvah, and if a parent should…

May 12, 2026
1:26:11
Let's Talk Penimiyus (featuring Rav Yussie Zakutinsky)

In episode 12 of The Learning Curve, Rabbi Garfield and Rabbi Schonfeld have a deep discussion with Rav Yussie Zakutinsky and explore what different neshamos in this generation really need.…

Apr 15, 2026
1:15:31
Let's Talk Salaries for Rebbeim

In episode eleven of The Learning Curve, Rabbi Schonfeld and Rabbi Garfield discuss if you should intervene when your child disagrees with your spouse, if it's ok for a Rebbi…

Mar 17, 2026
1:08:19
Let's Talk Old School Vs New School (feat. Rabbi Dovid Goldman)

In episode 10 of The Learning Curve, Rabbi Garfield and Rabbi Schonfeld discuss kids stealing; what age is normal, and when should you seek outside help? How can you help…

Mar 4, 2026
1:00:46
Let's Talk The Making of a Rebbi (feat. Rabbi Yoel Kramer)

In episode nine of The Learning Curve, Rabbi Schonfeld and Rabbi Garfield discuss if you should bribe kids not watch the superbowl, how a parent should approach poor Purim behavior,…

Feb 18, 2026
1:03:02
Let's Talk Mailbag

In episode 8 of season 3, Rabbi Garfiel and Rabbi Schonfeld answer reader emails and voicemails, including how rebbeim can assur texting for bachurim when they have texting themselves, whose…

Feb 4, 2026
52:56
Let's Talk Rejection (feat. Rabbi Yosef Sonnenschein)

In episode seven, Rabbi Schonfeld and Rabbi Garfield dicuss navigating the thorny waters of AI, even on a filtered flip phone. They also talk about leaving school punishments in school,…

Jan 21, 2026
1:00:46
Let's Talk Gifted Children

In Episode six, Rabbi Garfiel and Rabbi Schonfeld unpack their own eighth grade student experiences, discuss if you should parent someone else's kids, and answer the big question: What should…

Jan 7, 2026
1:11:31
Let's Talk to Today's Menahelim

In episode five, Rabbi Schonfeld and Rabbi Garfield record live from the Torah Umesora Convention! They discuss convention takeaways and winter vacation stress, and the big question: If a school…

Dec 25, 2025
53:59
Let's Talk Self Esteem (feat. Mrs. Shaindy Muller, MA LMHC)

In this episode, Rabbi Garfield and Rabbi Schonfeld continue discussing chutzpah, teaching moderation in a modern world, and the big question: how can we foster a sense of self esteem…

Dec 8, 2025
54:25
Let's Talk Chutzpah (feat. Rabbi Yechiel Spero)

In this episode, Rabbi Schonfeld and Rabbi Garfield talk about if you should encourage your child to go to their bully's simcha, and whether Jewish MP3 players are the best…

Nov 26, 2025
1:01:45
Let's Talk Getting Into Mesivta

In this episode, Rabbi Garfield and Rabbi Schonfeld answer our listeners' amazing feedback on the pressure conversation (and address the now-infamous "elite right" claim). And for the big question: how…

Nov 12, 2025
1:13:13
Lets Talk Students Under Pressure (Feat. Rabbi Aryeh Leib Smith and Mrs. Aliza Feder)

In our first episode of Season 3, Rabbi Schonfeld and Rabbi Garfield discuss kids who have a hard time getting up in the morning and whether schools should use tuition…

Oct 29, 2025
1:07:51
Let’s Talk TLC’S Back to School Special (Feat. Rabbi Motty Zeiger and more!)

On this episode, Rabbi Garfield and Rabbi Schonfeld discuss the back-to-school struggle and hear how parents and mechanchim prepare for a new year. Plus: what can a mother do to…

Aug 27, 2025
47:05
Let’s Talk Live (Feat. The Learning Curve Listeners)

For The Learning Curve season two finale, Rabbi Schonfeld and Rabbi Garfield host a live Zoom and take real-time questions from our listeners. They answer: Should intelligence be prioritized over…

Jun 16, 2025
58:36
Let’s Talk With Menahelim (Feat. Rabbi Yehuda Brecher, Rabbi Heshy Forster, Rabbi Ahron Gobioff and Rabbi Dov Gopin)

On this episode, Rabbi Schonfeld and Rabbi Garfield host a roundtable discussion with veteran menahelim. What does your child’s menahel wish you knew? How should a school balance your son’s…

Jun 5, 2025
1:05:47
Let’s Talk Tefillah (Feat. Rabbi Yitzchak Feigenbaum)

On this episode, Rabbi Garfield and Rabbi Schonfeld discuss how to best approach tefillah with your children. Also: Are gifted students being disregarded in yeshivos? And how can  parents maintain…

May 19, 2025
54:24
Let’s Talk Anxiety (Feat. Shifi Lieberman, LMFT)

On this episode, Rabbi Schonfeld and Rabbi Garfield discuss how to best care for a child with anxiety. Also: We want our kids to share with us, but how do…

May 6, 2025
59:28
Let’s Talk Raising Balanced Children (Feat. Rabbi Nosson Muller)

On this episode, Rabbi Garfield and Rabbi Schonfeld ask how we can raise balanced kids when more things are off-limits than ever before. Also, is my daughter’s school overdoing it…

Apr 22, 2025
1:03:14
Let’s Talk Partnering With Schools (Feat. Rabbi Moshe Bender)

On this episode, Rabbi Schonfeld and Rabbi Garfield ask: how schools can better partner with their parent body? Also: does installing a technology filter mean you don’t trust your child? And how much can we ask…

Apr 1, 2025
49:19
Let’s Talk Bullying (Feat. Dr. Rona Novick)

On this episode, Rabbi Garfield and Rabbi Schonfeld ask: How should parents and schools handle bullying? Also: Are our children getting too much candy in school? And how much homework…

Mar 18, 2025
54:44
Let's Talk Technology (Feat. Rabbi Yossi Strickman)

This podcast takes an honest look at three pressing parenting concerns: the pressures of mid-winter break, the balance between Purim fundraising and meaningful Yom Tov experiences for children, and the…

Mar 4, 2025
49:52
Let’s Talk Challenging Children (Feat. Rabbi Meir Simcha Stein)

Is using chat GPT cheating in school? Are school bee’s the best way to encourage mastery? And the spotlight issue: How do we discipline challenging children without sacrificing our relationship…

Feb 19, 2025
1:08:33
Let’s Talk Seminary (Feat. Mrs. Rivki Eichenstein)

In our season 1 finale episode, Rabbi Garfield and Rabbi Schonfeld discuss the most relevant topic in a high school girl's life: seminary. They discuss how the goals of seminary…

Sep 2, 2024
47:04
Let’s Talk General Studies (Feat. Rabbi Avraham Glustein and Rabbi Dov Portwicz)

On this episode, Rabbi Schonfeld and Rabbi Garfield discuss a hot topic in boys chinuch: The role and importance of general studies in cheder and elementary schools. They discuss the…

Aug 19, 2024
1:12:55
Let's Talk Mesivta (Feat. Rabbi Yaakov Bogart)

On this episode, Rabbi Garfield and Rabbi Schonfeld discuss one of the most impactful decisions a parent can have in their son's lives... where to send them for mesivta. They…

Jul 22, 2024
1:09:50
Let's Talk Kids' Mental Health (Feat. Dr. Shmuel Mandelman PhD)

On this episode of the pod, Rabbi Schonfeld and Rabbi Garfield delve deeper into mental health with renowned educational-developmental clinical neuropsychologist Dr. Shmuel Mandelman PhD. They discuss the single most…

Jul 8, 2024
55:44
Let's Talk Therapy (feat. Dr. Yossi Shafer PhD)

In this episode, Rabbi Garfield and Rabbi Schonfeld discuss the stigmas around mental health with Dr. Yossi Shafer PhD.  Also: Does the "work it out yourselves" approach to sibling rivalry…

Jun 23, 2024
59:24