“I really don’t need all these dates — there’s only one person I need. So please Hashem don’t send me any more shidduchim until it’s the right one.”
“S o what’s your dream your goal in life?”
I asked that question to many of the young men I met during my three-year stint in shidduchim. More often than not they didn’t have an answer for me. Seeing them at a loss I would restate the question more simply: “Where do you see yourself in five or ten years?”
The typical answer to that question was usually something along the lines of “Well my rebbi says I should do such-and-such.”
“But what do you want to do?” I would press.
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