When we reject our connection to Torah and Hashem, we are a non-people

When I was in sixth grade, I won a writing contest sponsored by the Jewish Veterans of America. This led to a class visit by two Jewish veterans who made grand speeches before presenting my prize. (An American war bond. Seriously? Some cash would do!) Squirming at all the attention, I listened to the older of the two veterans speak, while wondering irreverently how his neatly folded infantry cap remained in place on his perfectly bald head.
With much pomp and emphasis, he concluded his speech with a line I’ve never forgotten. “We are all here proud Jews. But we must remember that we are first and foremost proud Americans.”
My sixth-grade kanai self didn’t jump up to make a mechah, nor did my mercenary self refuse to take the prize offered. But my stronger adult self still wishes for the chance to rebut his words. Are you a Jewish American or an American Jew?
At the time I am writing this, Hersh Goldberg-Polin Hy”d was just laid to rest. I wanted to go to the levayah and to be menachem avel. It had nothing to do with the fact that Hersh was American, nor with his high-profile captivity, as his courageous parents traversed the globe as his advocate. No, my connection to Hersh didn’t stem from us speaking a common language. I first heard Hersh’s name at the very beginning of the war, when I signed up to receive the name of a hostage for extra tefillah. Hersh became mine. At that point he was a faceless name, a Jew suffering, and he became part of my daily tefillos, my hafrashas challah routine, my weekly Tehillim and my Shabbos lighting thoughts. It was only later that I found out his background and nationality.
And now with such agony, it appears our enemies succeeded. Hersh will not be coming home. But what our enemies don’t understand is that Hersh is home. He’s surrounded by the neshamos of all Klal Yisrael, back to Avraham Avinu.
In response to that misguided veteran, I stand here, to start the new year, not as an American nor an Israeli. I am a proud Torah Jew — two adjectives that supersede the physical realm. Because, when added to the third partner, Hashem, they equal One.
No matter where we live, a Jew will daven, will cry, will reach out to his brother regardless of his nationality. This is our uniqueness as a nation — our strength.
Our enemies don’t care what’s written on our passports. They fear what’s written on our souls.
(Originally featured in Family First, Issue 913)