In social interactions, most of us have some level of awareness of what works and what doesn’t. Experts call that “social intelligence.” What’s the secret formula of social intelligence?
What is a “really nice” person? It is a person who is pleasant to others a person who makes other people feel good. People who can do this are not only “nice” they are also successful in many aspects of their personal and professional life. They have something called “social intelligence.” We’re all born with varying levels of ready-made social intelligence although some of us are “naturals” on the social scene while many of us will do better once we learn a few tricks.
An almost fail-proof formula in social relationships is: generating good feelings in others helps maintain positive relationships; generating bad feelings hinders its development.
We know that it’s good to be friendly complimentary positive kind appreciative attentive and so on. We also know that it’s not good to be judgmental gruff negative disrespectful snobby and glum.
Perhaps the best way to explore social skills is through the examination of common social dilemmas. Let’s look at the following ten questions to better understand the principles and application of social skills.
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