“Model resilience. It takes thought and perseverance but the payoff is fantastic— a calmer child, a calmer life”
Mother: Shloimy still gets upset, but he’s much more willing and able to discuss the problem.
Sister: The house doesn’t totally revolve around Shloimy anymore. I get some attention too!
Shloimy: Life is easier when I’m calm.
As Shloimy’s emotional awareness develops, our work turns to giving him tools to deal with his overpowering feelings [This is cognitive work: Shloimy has to accept that even when he gets triggered, it’s his responsibility to regain control].
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