GREAT READS → WINDOWS Issue 982 · October 18, 2023

The Rest of the Story

The Rest of the Story
    With my years of résumé updating under my belt, here are some of my thoughts on this basic element of shidduchim

This.

Is.

Me.

This flimsy white piece of paper is Me. I may have just spent a whopping 13 minutes regaling shadchan #27 with stories of my life and dreams of my future, but at the end of the day, it’s this piece of paper that will be used to discern whether I will be a perfect fit for someone’s son.

The trees in the world may decry the existence of shidduch résumés, but without them, I would very possibly have an identity crisis. I mean, if no résumé stared me in the face and told me, you are still very much five feet, my height would be in flux, and I could convince myself that I grew three inches overnight — especially after a good night’s sleep.

So with my years of résumé updating under my belt, here are some of my thoughts on this basic element of shidduchim.

Height

First, the existential question: If I am four feet eleven and three quarters of an inch and can pass for five feet if the examiner forgot her glasses, what do I write on my résumé?

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