PERSPECTIVES → TO BE HONEST Issue 1102 · March 4, 2026

The Comfort Trap 

Three perspectives on raising capable adults

The Comfort Trap 

When we remove every obstacle, will our children be able to handle the climb ahead?

We’re Not Doing It for Our Kids
Rochel Esther Blumenkrantz

MYson, Moishy, turned nine, which meant that he was officially on sweeping duty on Friday afternoon. I spend the morning cooking, then washing dishes, and while I’m busy at the sink, the designated child sweeps the floor.

Moishy began with gusto, enthusiastic about his new job. But when he put the broom away with a self-satisfied “Huh!” I saw that he’d missed half the carrot peels and anything that was too close to a corner.

I expected that, honestly. Moishy is not my oldest.

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