PERSPECTIVES → FAMILY FIRST INBOX Issue 1082 · October 16, 2025

Family First Inbox: Issue 964

“No organization can single-handedly solve the rebbi/teacher pay crisis— but that is no reason to belittle what they can do”

Family First Inbox: Issue 964
A Privilege, Not a Humiliation [Inbox / Issue 962]

How ironic is it that in the very same week my family were privileged to be the grateful recipients of an incredible organization’s efforts to show their admiration and appreciation for rebbeim and teachers, I came across a letter to the editor in this magazine that completely demeaned their generosity, claiming that their method of distribution is humiliating and inconvenient for teachers?

I, along with many others in the chinuch world, was deeply impressed by the flawless execution of these packages. From beginning to end, everything was done with dignity and grace. Every detail was thoughtfully arranged to ensure it was bekavodig. The entire process was remarkable to witness — orderly, efficient, and honorable. All you had to do was sit back and drive through, as smiling kids enthusiastically loaded your trunk, each one cheerfully saying, “Thank you, Rebbi, gut Yom Tov!”

The joy on my children’s faces as they watched the kavod and esteem being given to their father was priceless. Every volunteer was on call, working tirelessly to ensure everything flowed seamlessly. And the finale — receiving a thoughtfully prepared bag, each time with a mix of treasures: a beautiful book, a candy platter, noy succah, or a USB filled with Torah shiurim and music, and more — took generosity to an entirely new level.

No organization can single-handedly solve the rebbi/teacher pay crisis — but that is no reason to belittle what they can do. Their efforts deserve to be celebrated, not dismissed.

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