Coordinated by Esti Werblowsky
Fast Find
It’s every mother’s nightmare — halfway through your Chol Hamoed trip, one of the kids vanish. Here’s what you can do beforehand to ensure you find your little wanderer fast:
- Immediately upon arrival snap a picture of your kids. That way you’ll have a recent photo and an exact description of each child’s clothes should you need them — you may not remember if you’re panicking.
- Mark your stroller with something big, bright, and obvious, so you know at a glance which carriage is yours. In a sea of Yoyos, Bees, and City Minis, it’s all too easy to walk off with the wrong baby. The only tiny tyrant I’m willing to put up with is my own, thank you very much.
- Dress your kids in bright colors. It will make them easier to spot in a crowd, and the more noticeable a child is, the less likely he is to chas v’shalom be targeted. Consider having all your children in matching outfits, as well. It’s easier for a helpful passerby to return a child when he clearly belongs to a group.
- Make sure your children know your cell (not home!) phone number. But don’t assume that a scared six-year-old will remember it. She may be too shy to answer questions from strangers. Instead, make sure little ones are wearing a written number somewhere on their bodies. You can give them dog tags, slap a sticker on their shirts, or write it on the tongues of their shoes. My favorite option? Temporary tattoos. They won’t wear off too quickly and can’t be peeled off or dropped. You can order them customized with your number and any important information. (Anything from allergies to autism can be included). Check out Safetytat.com or Etsy for options; prices start around $1.00/piece
Decanter Do’s and Don’ts
There’s an unwritten rule that there must be at least half-a-dozen choices of libation for the Kosos. What’s more, Seder wine must be served from narrow-necked decanters no bottle brush can penetrate. Here’s how to keep those decanters sparkling, no matter what you serve.
- Rinse your decanter with warm water immediately after use and leave it to soak if necessary. Since wine is water soluble — and alcoholic — that should be all you need. (Some wine connoisseurs like to avoid soap in their decanters, but if that doesn’t bother you, feel free to use it.)
- If you still see stains after soaking, you’ll want to scour the inside of the bottle. Decanter brushes are annoying to work with and don’t work for scrubbing the base. Instead, order some decanter beads ($10–$15 on Amazon). Pour the steel balls into a decanter with warm water and swirl until the stains are lifted. (During the year, you can toss in a handful of rice instead, but that’s not an option for many of us on Pesach!)
- If you have access to it, crushed ice mixed with a bit of salt will have the same scrubbing effect without the special equipment. Alka seltzer or denture tablets work, too — ask your rav if you can use them for cleaning on Pesach.
When Peace Reigns
We asked, you answered! We wanted to know how you keep your kids busy on Shabbos mornings. Here’s what you had to say:
I have big boxes of dress-up so they play pretend. And I buy special Shabbos breakfast like yogurt with toppings or mini cheesecakes that they can feed themselves.
