Of course it’s not one answer forever; the feelings fluctuate for me. Some weeks, or stages, hosting will send me over the top of my equilibrium scale to the point that I’m wound up like a spring, and some weeks it’s a nice addition to our regular Shabbos vibe.
Hosting comes along with a certain mindset, and maybe even a certain personality. I love walking into someone’s house and seeing that not only is it not perfect, but they’re also not apologizing about not being ready, or about the toys on the floor, or about missing some garnish. It’s about serenity, and confidence, and an atmosphere of welcoming unconditionally.
Rivky Kleiman has that hosting quality. On all the occasions that I was in her home, it always felt like she was the one on the receiving end, and I was doing her the biggest favor by giving her the pleasure of hosting.
When Rivky and I were planning her Shabbos meal with the entire readership as her guests, I felt like I was picking at the grilled vegetables in her kitchen while enjoying the plentiful meal in her dining room. And I am sure you’ll feel that way too.
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