Channels to get acquainted with your family
J ust because people live together doesn’t mean they actually know each other. Ask most teenagers if they think their parents know them for example and you’ll get a lot of negative replies.
“I don’t tell my parents what I really think about things. It’s my friends who really know me.”
Perhaps we’re not so surprised that an adolescent feels distant from her parents unwilling to open up and share her true feelings. The disconnect however isn’t limited to teens. Most children have very little idea of who their parents are many parents don’t know their children and many spouses don’t truly know each other.
External Behavior Internal Processe
Since our thoughts are securely encased within our brain tissues and our feelings lie deep within the chambers of our heart no one but Hashem can ever really know us. People can make assumptions about us based only on what they see us do; our actions and behaviors provide a level of information.
