LIFESTYLE Issue 1066 · June 18, 2025

Motherboard: Time Out

How to make the best of vacation and days off with your kids

Motherboard: Time Out
Is unstructured time off your worst nightmare? We collected tips and tricks from mothers for how to make the best of vacation and days off with your kids
Just One Goal

I make a goal for the day — something manageable and specific, like organizing a knapsack or an area of the house, or running an errand. Once we accomplish that goal, we do something that they do want to do, and I let them decide. Getting everyone up, dressed, davened, and fed is enough to keep me busy, but by putting in a small goal and fun activity, the day has a purpose and a structure. And this way, at the end of the day, I don’t get all the kvetching that we “didn’t do anything today!”

–F.G., Lakewood, NJ

Book Nook

The library is free and has something for all the different ages. My boys each have their own library card, and they love the chance to use it! Baking is fun as long as it’s more about the experience than the results. The main idea? Keep the off-time positive. It doesn’t have to be expensive to be memorable!

–L.K., Oak Park, MI

Keep the Routine

On days off, we try to keep a routine for the end of the day. Supper, chill, and bedtime at the regular time really satisfies the kids and doesn’t mess up the next day.

–T.P., Staten Island, NY

Having Fun Together

Having some sort of schedule really helps. I try to daven with my kids and eat meals all together instead of just serving food all day long to each kid separately. We do one activity or project like coloring or Play-Doh. Bubble baths are very fun and a great time waster.

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