TORAH → ELEVATE Issue 1087 · November 19, 2025

(Not) Supposed To

Three doses of inspiration to lift the spirit and soul

(Not) Supposed To
(Not) Supposed To In Real Time
Esther Kurtz

Long story short, my cleaning lady left me high and dry after showing up, cleaning for five minutes, and then bailing with an emergency with her kid.

I needed someone else — I was hosting two married sisters-in-law for Shabbos. After putting out an SOS, an acquaintance messaged that her cleaning help had a few hours available on Friday — huzzah. I messaged her lady, using Google Translate, and arranged for her to come for four hours the next day.

Next day, she arrived at 9:15, was sweet and pleasant, and quickly got to work. I cooked while she worked, and I wondered how her pacing would be — it’s a new home. She seemed a bit slow, and in my head, I wondered what jobs to cut down on. Also, I didn’t want her staying overtime as I only had exact cash for her — my previous cleaning lady had accepted Zelle.

When it started creeping toward 12:15, my brain went, she needs to leave now. She finished scrubbing my stovetop, I tapped my hand and said, “It’s late.” I made motions for her to leave, and she made motions to wash the floor, and I pointed at myself — I would do it. I paid her, and she left.

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