GREAT READS → TAKE 2 Issue 888 · December 1, 2021

Self-Conscious Around My Friend  

I would venture to say that this battle is one that we wage daily in 2021

Self-Conscious Around My Friend  

 

Rivka’s Take

Hi, my name is Rivka. I’m 14 years old. I’ve been wanting to talk about this for a while but I haven’t been able to bring it up to a family member or friend without fearing the conversation will get painfully awkward.

This may seem immature, or maybe even shallow, but I have a friend who’s really skinny. And pretty. And there’s no other way to put it but I’m seriously self-conscious around her, and it’s getting worse as we get older.

Let me give you a bit of background. My friend’s name is Sori, and we’ve been close for years — our parents are friends as well. We’re more like family than friends.

As we got older, it became increasingly apparent that Sori was beautiful — she gets her looks from her mother. As we entered into teenage years, Sori became more and more weight-conscious and always watched what she ate and exercised, while the rest of us normal kids would wolf down three slices of cake without a twinge of guilt. The result is that Sori has a look that’s enviable while I still have a rather pudgy waistline and the ability to eat a family sized bag of chips without a wince.

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