The unspoken (and sometimes spoken) criticism is, “How can you deprive your kids?”

As told to Shoshana Gross
The click of my key in the lock echoed through the empty house as I stepped into the daily after-school silence. The privilege of the youngest child — no older siblings home. Mom at work. Dad gone so long I couldn’t remember him. But the snack cupboard was full. In the quiet, lonely kitchen, I savored the sweetness of chocolate, the crunch of Oreo cookies, the saltiness of Lay’s barbecue potato chips filling the emptiness.
I was the kid who emptied my piggy bank as fast as my allowance could fill it, reveling in the pleasures of every sugary temptation. I was the teenager who effortlessly downed a pint of rocky road ice cream in one sitting. I was the college student who dined on Hershey bars and a coffee. What shocked me was that when I did manage to eat a balanced meal, I felt so much more satisfied. My candy-coated childhood hadn’t prepared me for the idea that food could make a difference.
I was in my twenties when I finally decided to learn how to take care of myself. Haunting the local health-food stores, I met like-minded people who knew a lot more than me and weren’t shy about sharing their wisdom. I learned that health isn’t eating a few carrot sticks and an apple to fulfill a daily “health” obligation, but a holistic lifestyle approach. I still needed my chocolate fix, but it was the beginning.
Salads became a regular part of my meal plan. I replaced meat and chicken with salmon as my go-to protein, and white bread morphed into organic whole grain. I tossed out white sugar and my beloved artificial sweeteners in favor of raw honey and date syrup. I was surprised at how fresh my fruits and vegetables tasted now that I wasn’t eating processed food.
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