Can I motivate my kids to do their chores? One woman's valiant quest
My children got a kick out of the moderate celebrity status they enjoyed after the last article was published, so when I asked them if they’d be up for participating in another experiment, this time focusing on helping around the house for a full month, they readily agreed.
Currently, when it comes to helping around the house, my kids are pretty average. They help out when they’re in the mood, but usually they’d rather be doing other things. They don’t have assigned jobs, although there are certain expectations, like keeping their rooms relatively clean (read: picking up clothing off the floor), putting away clean laundry, and clearing their plates from the table when they’re finished.
Even though I’m not losing sleep over it, I’d love for them to help out more. Research indicates that children who have set chores have higher self-esteem, are more responsible, and are better able to deal with frustration and delay gratification.
From a parenting perspective, of course I want that for my children. On a personal level, I’d love to stop muttering, “What do you think I am, your maid?” under my breath and get a little more help around the house.
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