Move over, modesty; what tzniyus is all about

When planning this piece, we sent out a call for dilemmas and observations on tzniyus. We got back some good questions, comments — and lots of emotion. This is a topic that cuts close.
Here’s a request: Can you accept tzniyus as a value and deal with the fact that we all have a place where we can grow? If so, we’re ready to talk. Perhaps we’ll even dust off some refrains from high school, and realize that they’re not tired — but we may be.
If you’re already getting mad, then consider filing this for later. If you want to share those feelings, drop me a line, because we all gain from hearing different perspectives.
My mother-in-law thinks she’s being subtle when she complains to me about the emphasis on looks and dress these days — you bet she’s talking about other people. Okay, so I care about what’s in style and wear make-up, nothing crazy or loud, and she doesn’t. What’s wrong with looking nice?
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