PERSPECTIVES → FAMILY FIRST INBOX Issue 1053 · March 12, 2025

Family First Inbox: Issue 935

“...a troubling trend: rejecting evidence-based treatments in favor of vague, feel-good solutions”

Family First Inbox: Issue 935
No Evidence [A Better You / Issue 933]

Shoshana Schwartz’s piece “Healing Beyond Habits” where she suggested people experiencing anxiety heal it by “releasing the root causes through deeper methods like mindfulness, journaling, EFT tapping, and EMDR” highlights an important conversation about anxiety — but also reflects a troubling trend: rejecting evidence-based treatments in favor of vague, feel-good solutions. In any other area of medicine, we wouldn’t bypass proven methods for alternatives without substantial proof — why should mental health be different? As a frum community, we’re living the consequences of this.

EMDR and mindfulness, while popular, aren’t primary evidence-based treatments for anxiety. EMDR is primarily studied for PTSD, and its effectiveness comes from exposure — something CBT already incorporates in a more structured, collaborative, and transparent way. This raises concerns about informed consent. Mindfulness is a critical life skill, but not a standalone therapeutic strategy. Teaching mindfulness isn’t the same as treating anxiety — please don’t confuse the two. These methods may provide temporary relief, but don’t offer long-term solutions.

Dr. Chaya Lieba Kobernick
Founder/Director of The CBT/DBT Center

In the Same Boat [Save the Date / Issue 933]

Thank you, Rachel Burnham, for including the story about the 23-year-old girl who hadn’t yet gotten a single date in your serial. As I read it, my eyes popped out of my head and I thought, this is me! And so many other girls, although I haven’t heard it being talked about.

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