To offer support, first we have to listen and understand
When Shaindy’s husband left her five years ago, her life turned upside down. After 27 years of marriage, six children, and a life of homemaking, Shaindy no longer knew where she fit
into the universe — or into the community. She could never have imagined this would happen to her. Why would her husband have a “midlife crisis” for no apparent reason? Why did Hashem let it happen? After her youngest daughter got married three years ago, Shaindy was left in her large, silent house, alone with her thoughts and her broken heart.
A few months after the wedding, Shaindy’s friend Miri showed up at the door with a gift.
“I bought a budgie bird for you,” Miri exclaimed. “I think you’ll love him!”
Shaindy, although appreciative, was horrified. Who buys a pet for someone? And a bird? Why would anyone want a bird? As she gaped, Miri walked passed her, carrying the bird cage and supplies right into the kitchen.
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