WELLBEING → WORDS UNSPOKEN Issue 997 · January 31, 2024

To My Friend at the Infertility Clinic

He gave us one of the most beautiful brachos we’ve ever received, “May you have much bruchah, hatzluchah, and nachas”

To My Friend at the Infertility Clinic

 

To My Friend at the Infertility Clinic,

I was quick to learn the social norms, nuances, and rules of the early-morning appointments at the infertility clinic. No talking. The waiting room may be full, but no one wants to be acknowledged or talked to at an unearthly hour, in a personal space.

Until one morning when someone broke the silence.

It was 5:30 a.m. in the surgery center at the clinic’s main location. Outside the building, the moon was shining brightly, the world was still and dark, and a thin layer of frost covered the ground. Inside, the building was eerily empty and silent; the perky receptionist hadn’t yet arrived.

So many hopes and dreams were pulsing through the very atmosphere. My husband and I entered the elevator. A moment later a young chassidisher man — a boy really, he couldn’t have been much older than 20 — walked into the elevator. I looked down, trying to give him some space and privacy. As a veteran to the world of infertility, I’d been there, done this before. This young man looked so vulnerable, so young — too young to be dealing with this.

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