GREAT READS → WINDOWS Issue 893 · January 5, 2022

Making Tehillim Mine

Poor kriah skills, while less devastating for a frum girl than a frum boy, is still devastating

Making Tehillim Mine

“1-10,” came a quick reply.

“11-20,” was the next.

“21-30,” came right after.

And so it went.

I hope no one noticed that I didn’t volunteer.

I don’t say Tehillim for people. Not because I’m cold and selfish, but because my kriah isn’t fluent. It’s painstakingly slow. And I don’t have time, patience, or energy to face one of my failures.

“Her kriah isn’t the best — it’s a good thing she’s a girl.” A friend made that offhand comment about her daughter. I reassured her that it wasn’t a big deal, her learning future wasn’t at stake. She didn’t have to read Gemara, get an aliyah, lein at a bar mitzvah, or learn textually in any significant way.

I was lying. Poor kriah skills, while less devastating for a frum girl than a frum boy, is still devastating.

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