You may think you know everything about your spouse. But when you go house-shopping together, there are bound to be differences and surprises
Nechama Norman with Batsheva Berman
ASs soon as I begin working with a couple, I set up a three-way chat. This helps avoid the dreaded, “What do you mean we’re supposed to be seeing a house at two? She never gave me the message.”
When I met Yanky and Shaindy Soloff, a couple in their sixties, I did the same. Then I got a message from Shaindy: Those two houses you mentioned yesterday sound interesting. Can I come see them?
Sure, I replied. Let’s just move this to the group chat.
There’s a reason I contacted you directly.
Okaayyy.
I left Shaindy a voice note, letting her know that I realize buying a house is stressful, and if she wants to speak to me privately, she should feel free to do so. She called an hour later and the story emerged.
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