If you insist on trying to change your husband, you’re going to pay for it
I’d like to ask a question that I’m sure a lot of women secretly struggle with too but isn’t spoken about enough. My husband over the last year has put on a lot of weight. This is putting a strain on our marriage for two reasons.
Firstly, even though I’m not the type of woman who is very “into” the way my husband looks, for some reason his appearance is really making me more distant. I’m not even sure why it’s bothering me so much — it could be because of the second reason.
The second reason is that he has started to snore. I am a light sleeper and don’t do well when my sleep gets interrupted countless times a night. I think this is what is bothering me so much about his weight. This constant broken sleep is just making me resentful.
My husband has tried everything to solve his snoring — from doctors to sleep apnea testing — but ultimately we know it’s because of his weight gain. He does try to diet, but he can never stick to it. This makes me feel like he doesn’t care, and I end up feeling annoyed and upset.
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