You can choose not to argue
What is an argument? An argument is a set of statements or premises that logically combine to support a particular conclusion. There’s another definition: An argument is an angry or heated exchange of opposite opinions. This unpleasant sort of conversation occurs in the workplace and social arena, but even more commonly, at home. Arguments take place between brothers and sisters, between parents and children, and between spouses.
People argue to be right, to be heard, to “win,” or to get their way. There are even those who argue as a means of distraction from some other issue. But people lead happier, calmer, and healthier lives when they stop arguing altogether.
Wife: It was supposed to be a vacation for both of us! So why was it that I was left looking after the kids, the meals, and the mess while you were outside schmoozing with your buddies the whole time?
Husband: I really resent that! I took care of the boat and cleaned the deck and made sure everyone had all their safety equipment! Where were you when I was doing all that? Schmoozing with your friends on the porch? I’m sick and tired of you accusing me of things every time I sit down to relax for five minutes. You’re not happy unless I’m being your full-time slave!
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